怎么为上班迟到道歉

作为上班族的你，有时难免因为一些意外情况而迟到，比如交通堵塞或一些生活中的小插曲。有些公司可能会容忍你偶尔迟到，有些公司却对此有着严格的规定。无论造成迟到的原因是什么，主动与上司沟通，并真诚地表达歉意都是很重要的。首先为自己的迟到道歉，然后说明迟到的原因，给出合理诚实的解释。如果你犯的错特别严重，可能需要写一封道歉信或电子邮件来解释。

步骤

评估情况

1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/8\/89\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-1-Version-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-1-Version-3.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/8\/89\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-1-Version-3.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-1-Version-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 1 预估一下你会迟到多久。迟到几分钟对于某些工作而言可能并不是什么大问题，但如果会迟到比较久，那你可能需要提前打电话通知，或是在达到之后向相关的人道歉。^[1]
2. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/7\/7b\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-2-Version-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-2-Version-3.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/7\/7b\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-2-Version-3.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-2-Version-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 2 守时在不同情况下有着不一样的重要性。假设你即将参加一个重要会议，那准时到达就显得特别重要。另外，有些工作相对于守时也有着更为严格的要求。^[2]
3. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/1\/18\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-3-Version-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-3-Version-3.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/1\/18\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-3-Version-3.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-3-Version-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 3 事先通知。如果你需要晚到超过5分钟，最好提前打个电话通知老板，并告诉她大概到达的时间。^[3]

亲自道歉

1. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/6\/6f\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-4-Version-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-4-Version-3.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/6\/6f\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-4-Version-3.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-4-Version-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 1 真诚地道歉，别让老板觉得你是在敷衍。当然，你也要为自己的迟到感到懊悔。^[4]
   • 想要表现真诚，就要严肃对待道歉，不要在道歉的时候嬉皮笑脸。
2. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/b\/bc\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-5-Version-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-5-Version-3.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/b\/bc\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-5-Version-3.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-5-Version-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 2 老板可能因为没有发现你迟到，所以不明白你为什么突然道歉，所以在道歉的时候要说明原因。^[5]
   • 比如，你可以说：“很抱歉，我今天上班迟到了15分钟。”
3. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/3\/3f\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-6-Version-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-6-Version-3.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/3\/3f\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-6-Version-3.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-6-Version-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 3 坦诚。除非是不适宜在工作场合提起的原因，否则还是坦白说明迟到的真正原因。编造的故事越复杂，老板越有可能认为你在撒谎。谎言总有被揭穿的时候。^[6] 原因越简短越好。
   • 比如，你可以说：“很抱歉，我迟到了15分钟，因为我正要出门的时候发现小孩生病了，不得不耽搁一会安排一下。”^[7]
   • 假如迟到的原因不适合或不方便在工作场合提起，那最好还是不说吧。比如，由于发型没弄好而迟到，这样的原因应该说不出口吧。那就直接道歉，不要找借口，也不要撒谎。^[8]
4. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/f\/f6\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-7-Version-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-7-Version-3.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/f\/f6\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-7-Version-3.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-7-Version-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 4 认错。让老板知道你已经认识到自己迟到会给公司带来损失。迟到就是违反了公司规定，在最坏的情况下，还可能因此丢失客户。^[9]
   • 比如，你可以继续说：“我知道公司非常看重守时，也深刻认识到守时的重要性，我今后一定会努力做到这一点。”
5. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/d\/da\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-8-Version-3.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-8-Version-3.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/d\/da\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-8-Version-3.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-8-Version-3.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 5 假如老板没有当场解雇你（这在某些情况下是可能发生的），那就该充分表示感谢。你可以说：“我很感激你再给我一次机会。”^[10]
6. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/0\/06\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-9-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-9-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/0\/06\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-9-Version-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-9-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 6 别找借口。假如老板想借由迟到好好教训你一顿，不要找借口打断她， 只需要让她知道你已经认识到迟到的影响。^[11]
7. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/9\/93\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-10-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-10-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/9\/93\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-10-Version-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-10-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 7 不要为了道歉而干扰正在进行中的会议。假如你晚了到达会议现场，最好尽快参与进去，尽量不影响别人。不要为了道歉而中断了议程，而是等到会议结束了再向大家道歉。^[12]
8. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/b\/ba\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-11-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-11-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/b\/ba\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-11-Version-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-11-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 8 避免重蹈覆辙。每个人都免不了迟到那么一两次，但如果是经常性迟到，老板早晚会发现的。这样的情况下，无论道歉有多么真诚，一直重复同样的错误说明你并没有真正意识到自己的错。^[13]

写道歉信

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2. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/5\/51\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-13-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-13-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/5\/51\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-13-Version-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-13-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 2 道歉信或电子邮件格式要正式，在顶部写上你的姓名、住址和邮件地址，然后写上日期，日期下是老板的姓名、工作地址和邮件地址。^[14]
3. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/c\/c8\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-14-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-14-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/c\/c8\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-14-Version-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-14-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 3 以“尊敬的”为开头，这是商业信函中较为安全的用语。如果平时直接以名字来称呼老板的，那就把她的名字放在“尊敬的”后面，否则就直接用“某某女士”或“某某先生”之类的称呼代替。
4. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/1\/12\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-15-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-15-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/1\/12\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-15-Version-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-15-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 4 说明写这封信或电子邮件的原因，注意提及迟到的日期和时间，还有迟到的原因。^[15]
   • 比如，你可以这样写：“我在2015年9月4日周五上班迟到了2个小时，我想为此道歉。当时家中遇到了不得不即刻处理的问题，但我意识到迟到给公司带来了很不好的影响，所以感到非常抱歉。”
5. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/4\/4d\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-16-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-16-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/4\/4d\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-16-Version-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-16-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 5 接下来，要表现出你已经意识到自己迟到造成的恶劣影响，承认自己给公司造成了损失。^[16]
   • 你可以这样写：“我的迟到给公司造成了损失，我错过了与客户的会面，虽然我会尽全力去弥补，但不可否认的是，这已经对公司信誉造成了一定的负面影响。”
6. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/2\/2b\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-17-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-17-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/2\/2b\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-17-Version-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-17-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 6 在道歉信或邮件的最后表明决心。说出你在未来会如何避免再次迟到，会采取哪些措施等等。^[17]
   • 你可以这样写：“我知道老板对我们员工的期望很高，所以我会采取一些措施，保证像今天这样的情况不再发生。我已经跟家人沟通好，假如再次出现这样的突发状况，他们会帮助我，使我不至于耽误上班。”
7. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/1\/16\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-18-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-18-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/1\/16\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-18-Version-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-18-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 7 在道歉信或邮件的最后，以表达感激之情作为结尾，对老板给予的第二次机会表示感谢。^[18]
   • 举个例子，你可以这么说：“非常感谢你的理解，我很感激你给我机会证明我对公司的忠诚。”
8. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/e\/eb\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-19-Version-2.jpg\/v4-460px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-19-Version-2.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/e\/eb\/Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-19-Version-2.jpg\/v4-728px-Apologize-for-Being-Late-to-Work-Step-19-Version-2.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":546,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 8 在信函的结尾处写上“敬启”。如果道歉信是打印出来的，要留出空间签上姓名，然后把打印的姓名放在下方。如果是电子邮件，就直接把姓名打印出来。^[19]

小提示

• 亲自通知老板，而非借由别人之口，别让老板从别人口中听说你迟到了。
• 做点别的事情来弥补，同时要表现得自然一点。