我们都曾见过别人做成了我们想做的事,有时我们会对自己说“如果我想的话,我也能做到。”有时候我们缺少的就是毅力。本文讨论的是缺乏毅力的原因和对策,希望能帮你成功!
步骤
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衡量你的目标,别制定不切实际的目标。有时候缺乏毅力是因为目标不符合实际。
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把大目标分成小一点的容易实现的目标。
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设定完成小目标的期限。
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制定合理的目标并付出努力。说比做容易。下面的步骤是关于如何找到动力,增强毅力。
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要是你缺乏毅力,你应该找到原因,肯定有原因。找到阻碍你的原因是很重要的一步。发现问题,才能修正。
- 因为害怕失败?不安感阻碍了你的尝试?
- 要做的事情太多?这是正常的,要努力一步步完成。
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尽你所能克服困难。不要害怕,要战胜畏惧心理。
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强调目标的重要性,设想一下达成目标能带来的好处。不能因为难就放弃。
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为自己愿意直面困难而自豪。不要苛求自己,也不要乱听别人的意见。别人不清楚你的能力,所以如果有人说“如果她能一周完成那你一定也能”,不一定。这不符合生活的逻辑。
- 越难开始的事情越值得尝试。勇于尝试是令人自豪的,不是羞耻。
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一旦开始做,就要坚持。不要放弃。只和自己竞争,做你真心想做的事。当然,在自己成功的同时能满足他人需要也很重要。每分每秒都是实现目标的机遇。
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值得做的事情都值得坚持。你也许不能一下子成功。就算一开始不符合预期,我们依然能在努力尝试中获得宝贵经验,获得成长。只要够努力,就一定能增加成功的几率。
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寻求他人的帮助。有朋友相助更容易成功。自己决定想做的事,但不排斥他人的帮助,这样双方都能变得更强。
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别害怕谈论你的目标,说出来你能获得更多帮助。远离负能量的人,有的人越帮越忙,你要学会判断。
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写日记,记录一路上的进步,在你低落的时候激励自己。
小提示
- 即使遇到困难或曾经放弃,别害怕重拾那些值得做的事。罗马不是一天建成的,必要的时候你可以休息。
- 用日记来跟踪进度,如果进行地不错,你会很有成就感。
警告
- 消极的心理暗示和他人的批评是有害的。要尽量避免这些,即使会延缓进度。如果自己都不认可自己,就算有再多机会也不能成功。