怎么看出对方不再想与你交谈

你是否有过这样的经历？你正与某人交谈或试图加入一场对话中去时，未免会扪心自问：要是对方不愿意与我交谈该怎么办啊？一个人不想与你交谈的理由有很多，或许是他累了，又或许是他不满你打扰了这场私密的谈话，有时候甚至很难说清楚确切的原因。当你察言观色，发现对方不想与你交谈时，不妨委婉地找个借口结束这次谈话，使双方都得以解脱。

部分 1 部分 1 的 3:

察言观色，读懂肢体语言

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- 注意Facebook、Instagram、Whatsapp等社交媒体软件上的“已读”提示。要是对方隔了好久才回复你，甚至根本不回复，就表明对方多半不想与你交流。不过，事实上也可能并非如此，因为或许对方正忙着或一时忘了回复你。
- 注意：要是你一发信息，对方就下线，也很大程度上表明对方不想与你交流。不过，正如上文所言，事实上也可能并非如此，因为或许对方正忙着。
- 查看对方回复的内容。要是对方回复的是诸如“哦”、“行”等词，就表明对方极有可能对当前的话题不感兴趣或不想与你交流。
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研究来源}如何留意对方的语气呢？你可以问自己以下这些关于对方语气的问题：
- 当我提及某事时，对方言语之间有怒意吗？
- 对方回复的语速缓慢吗？语气中带有疲倦或不耐烦的情绪吗？
- 交谈的过程中，对方的语气中带有欢喜或兴奋的情绪吗？
- 对方质疑我所说的一切吗？^{[2]
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- 要是察觉自己说得明显比对方多，这恐怕也表明对方已经对当前的话题不感兴趣。
- 试着让自己少说一些，看看对方是否开始变得话多，如果是，就说明之前对方之所以话少，是因为每当他/她想要说时，你总抢先说了，没留给他/她说的机会。
- 要想知道自己是否真正融入一场两人以上的会谈，不妨试着随意说点什么，然后密切留意其他人的反应如何。
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- 敷衍地回复，比方说“好吧”、“对”或“没错”等。
- 重复你说过的话。例如，你说：“今天真冷”，对方回复：“嗯，真冷”。^{[3]
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- 对你提出的问题或观点避而不答
- 用简单的词或重复你观点的词来回复，比方说“不”或“对”，或者用肢体语言来暗示自己不想再谈下去，比方说只点头而不作答。
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- 一直在看地板
- 一直在环顾四周
- 一直在看钟或看表。^{[4]
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- 目光呆滞。^{[5]
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- 观察对方是否有意模仿你的姿势或将身体朝向你，若是都没有，就说明对方不想再继续谈下去了。^{[7]
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- 留意交谈时对方是否面对着你，若不是，那么对方可能不想继续聊下去了。^{[8]
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- 要是对方的脚朝向你，就说明他/她专注于与你交谈。
- 留意彼此间的身体距离，要是对方不想靠近你，就说明他/她可能不想继续聊下去了。^{[9]
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- 身体僵直不动
- 肩膀紧绷向上耸^{[10]
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- 双臂交于胸前
- 用手指触碰你的脖子或衣领
- 坐立不安或心不在焉地信手涂鸦。
- 哈欠连连。^{[11]
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部分 2 部分 2 的 3:

礼貌地借故告辞

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- 尽量不要将坏情绪宣泄到他人身上。
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- 想去吧台再要一杯饮料
- 需要拨打或接听一个重要的电话
- 想上一趟洗手间
- 感觉身体不舒服，想出去透透气。^{[15]
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- 寻找室内能让你“记起”某事的某物。比方说，你可以看一眼钟或手表，然后说：“哎呀，想不到已这么晚了，我要回家哄女儿睡觉了。”
- 看看有没有人能替代你继续聊，这样你就可以全身而退了。^{[17]
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- 寻找话题间的空隙，并以此巧妙地结束对话。比方说：“我很开心和您交谈，不过我现在得离开了，因为我还有个早会。”^{[18]
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- 你也可以说：“我想您可能还要和别人聊聊，那我就先告辞了。”^{[20]
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- 记住：你的语气和肢体语言要尽可能地真诚。^{[21]
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- 不要老用这一招，以免让人觉得你虚伪。^{[22]
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- 问对方一些细节满满的问题，无论是从事的职业、所学的课程或兴趣爱好都可以。这样一来，就可以顺理成章地说：“我对此很感兴趣，以后我想向您了解更多，您方便给张名片或留个联系方式吗？”
- 对方递名片或联系方式给你，你接过时一定要当场认真看一看以示尊重。^{[24]
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- 表示愿意向对方提供帮助。你可以这样说：“我很开心与您聊天。对您的事业我也有所了解了。日后有用得着我的地方，您尽管开口，我一定尽力而为。”^{[25]
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- 这些谈话的技巧用在不太熟的人身上正好。
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- 自然而然地转换话题。当你想结束谈话时，可以问对方一些与最开始的话题相关的问题。^{[27]
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- 你可以这样说：“克里斯，我很开心与您交谈，谢谢您的建议，这对我帮助很大。不过很抱歉，我现有急事，得先走一步了。”
- 为了以示尊重和告知对方你已记住他这个人，你的结束语中应包含有对方的名字。^{[30]
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- 记得用“甜言蜜语胜过添油加醋。”这句谚语来给自己打气。

部分 3 部分 3 的 3:

使交流进一步深入

{"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/7\/7c\/Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-15.jpg\/v4-460px-Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-15.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/7\/7c\/Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-15.jpg\/v4-728px-Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-15.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":325,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":514,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 1 记住，每个人都有不在状态的时候。当不明白对方为何不想与你交谈时，你要想到有一种可能性是：每个人都有不在状态的时候。搞清楚对方是因不在状态而不想与你交谈呢，还是真的不想与你交谈，这是维系双方关系并深入交往下去的第一步。
- 与对方交谈之后，要过段日子再联系对方。这样做，能使对方腾出时间来处理手头上的事务，并消化你在他/她心目中可能留下的坏印象。
{"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/6\/66\/Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-16.jpg\/v4-460px-Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-16.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/6\/66\/Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-16.jpg\/v4-728px-Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-16.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":325,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":514,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 2 释放友善的信号。通过短信、电邮、社交媒体或电话沟通等方式与对方继续保持联系。此外，你也可以造访对方的办公室或家。这样做，势必能使交流进一步深入，并能充分了解对方与你交谈时的真实感受。
- 传递的讯息要简明友好。向对方强调你很满意上回的交谈。^{[31]
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  研究来源}例如，你可以说：“上回我俩的交谈真的让我很开心。想必您现在一切都好吧，那么有空吗？要不咱俩坐下来喝杯咖啡再继续聊一会儿？”
- 发给对方的信息不能冗长，也不能重重复复。因为对方对简明信息的回复往往能反映出他的真实态度。
{"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/a\/ab\/Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-17.jpg\/v4-460px-Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-17.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/a\/ab\/Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-17.jpg\/v4-728px-Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-17.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":325,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":514,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 3 搞清楚对方的态度。留意对方是隔了多久才看信息，是如何回复的以及回复的速度如何。这些都能反映出对方是否愿意与你交流。
- 留意对方是何时回复以及如何回复的。假如对方很快回复“抱歉，我得失陪了”，就意味着他/她现在不想与你交谈。要是对方的回复比上回谈话时更友好更热情，就说明上回谈话时对方正好情绪不佳，因而反应冷淡。
- 对方不回复就说明对方现在不想与你交谈。
- 要是对方现在不想与你交谈，你就不要再继续发信息给对方，以免把他惹毛，最终只会让你自己也不开心。
{"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images_en\/thumb\/6\/64\/Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-18.jpg\/v4-460px-Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-18.jpg","bigUrl":"https:\/\/www.zenmeban.com\/images\/thumb\/6\/64\/Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-18.jpg\/v4-728px-Tell-When-Someone-Doesn%27t-Want-to-Talk-to-You-Anymore-Step-18.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":325,"bigWidth":728,"bigHeight":514,"licensing":"<div class=\"mw-parser-output\"><\/div>"} 4 保持距离。对方要是反应冷淡或不主动联系你，就是想让你知道他不愿与你交流。如果是这样，你就得离他/她远点，不要再去打扰他/她，否则只会弄得你和对方都不开心，甚至后患无穷，比如说你为此名誉受损。
- 要是对方不愿与你交流，你就不要再发信息给他，也不要在社交媒体上对他出言不逊，甚至取关他，因为这些行为都表明你已察觉对方不想与你交流。
- 要是你愿意的话，不妨等待对方主动联系你，到时你再决定要如何回应他。你或许应该考虑再给对方一次机会，毕竟与人为善总是没有坏处的，即便对方曾经怠慢过你。