震慑他人是指为了取得某种理想的效果,而让他人感到害怕或紧张。尽管震慑在人际交往中并不是好的品质,但在体育竞技、做生意和其它竞争环境中,却有一定的作用。学会震慑他人还可以让你克服对他人的恐惧。
步骤
方法 1 的 2:
肢体语言上的震慑技巧
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站立时抬头挺胸。如果你看上去不自信,不坚定,你很难能震慑住他人。记住走进屋子之前一定要摆好自己的姿态。
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练出些肌肉。身材健硕的男人或女人总能震慑住他人。因此多花时间锻炼身体,给一个别人害怕你的理由。
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不要表现得坐立不安。一个有震慑力的人坐的时候不交叉着腿,不抖动腿,也不时不时地东张西望。
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用眼神杀死人。与对方对视一会儿,不过不能带有挑衅的表情。
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带一个随从前往。到一个新的地方时,身后带一名随从,会让你显得更有权威且重要。而且,随从的表情越自信越坚定,你的震慑力也会越大。
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打扮整洁。打扮时尚整洁会让人觉得你具有特殊气质。
- 如果你想在办公室里有威慑力,你得让你的办公桌保持干净舒适。这样你会自然地散发出权威的力量。
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在你的办公区域张贴奖状和毕业证书。你不用到处向人炫耀自己获得了哪些成就,把证明张贴出来自然会起到广而告之的作用。
方法 2 的 2:
心理上的震慑技巧
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反对。如果你不赞同对方的观点,可以大胆地说“我不同意”。然后陈列一条自己的观点,你无需为了照顾对方的情绪而说些委婉的话。
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保持沉默。通常人们跟外向的、多言的人会相处得比较自在,因此保持沉默,偶尔指指你想讲的东西,能起到一定的威慑作用。
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保持神秘感。不要跟别人讲太多你自己的事情。如果每个人都分享了不少各自的故事,唯独你少说的话也会起到震慑的作用。[1]
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充分施展你的权力。假设你的职位赋予了你很大的权力,不要害怕表现得别人高人一等,而且还要不时地发号施令。[2]
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不要与同事一同出席在社交场合。与他人保持适当的距离以保持神秘感。
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保持坚定。不要害怕顶撞他人,记住你必须要保障自己的权利。多就私生活以外的话题发表自己的意见和看法,能让别人敬畏你。
- 还有,你可以揭对方的伤疤。不过,这种方法通常会让你看起来很卑鄙。[3]